| Location | Burntwood |
| Age | 11 years |
| Cause of Death | Accident |
| Date of Birth | 27/12/1996 |
| Date of Death | 31/03/2008 |
| Visitors | 3,953 since 21/10/2008 |
| Creator |
Tom was and is my whole life . I find it so very hard to accept that Tom is not coming back . Tom
was a great little boy who had lots of friends and loved everyone he was so sensitive and kind . He
was the making of me and made my life complete as every mother knows it is such an unconditional
love that you just cannot compare . Tom has touched so many people , there is a huge void in my life
an it is something that i can't describe in words the very fact that i'm still here amazes me. I
have to try and make positive steps now to make Tom proud of me the way i am proud of him . I set
out with the help from my friends family and strangers to raise money for the County Air Ambulane
with different events that have been organised since Tom lost his life .People often say to me how
good i'm doing but i have to say its not me its Tom, I will never let Tom's memory fade . Tom was a
keen little footballer and just started to have golf lessons every saturday he thought it was great,
His birthday is the27th of december and i was going to take him to see his favourite sport the wwf
wrestling in April with a few of his best friends but he lost his life on the 31st of march 2008 in
the Easter holidays
We had a special chat at every bed time and i would say to him " i love you the moon the stars the
universe and to infinity and beyond "
in loving memory
they say that times a healer
but as the time goes on
i seem to find it just as hard
to face the fact you have gone
and today it's the anniversary
of the day you went away
i'm sitting here and thinking
and believe me when i say
you'll never be forgotten
and ther's times i'll shed a tear
but it's only because i love you
and wish you were still here
Tribute For This Weekend Candles will be lit as usual on Sunday for Monday I would like to take this opportunity to thank everyone for all the candles, tributes and photographs they have taken the time to leave on Christopher’s Website they are very much appreciated I read every single one. I Love And Miss Him So Much. Thanks again Angela X Love is like a butterfly; It goes where it pleases And pleases wherever it goes. The best and most beautiful Things in the world cannot Be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart The Watcher You always leaned to watch for us Anxious if we were late, In winter by the window, In summer by the gate. And though we mocked you tenderly Who had such foolish care, The long way home would seem more safe, Because you waited there. Your thoughts were all so full of us, You never could forget, And so I think that where you are You must be watching yet. Waiting ‘til we come home to you Anxious if we are late Watching from Heaven’s window Leaning from Heaven’s gate. To Those Whom I Love and Those Who Love Me When I am gone, release me, let me go I have so many things to see and do You must not tie yourself to me with tears Be happy that I have had so many years I gave you my love, you can only guess How much you gave me in happiness I think you for the love each have shown But now it is time I traveled on alone So grieve a while for me, if grieve you must Then let your grief be comforted by trust It is only for a while that we must part So bless the memories in your heart I will not be far away, for life goes on So if you need me, call and I will come Though you can not see or touch me, I will be near and if you listen with your heart, You will hear all of my love around you Soft and clear then, when you must come this way alone I will greet you with a smile and a "Welcome Home" Friends Are Like Angels, Who brighten our days. In all kinds of wonderful, Magical ways. Their thoughtfulness comes, As a gift from above. And we feel we're surrounded, By warm, caring love. Like upside-down rainbows, Their smiles bring the sun. And they fill ho-hum moments, With laughter and fun. Friends are like angels, Without any wings. Blessing our lives, With the most precious thing Thoughts Today Memories Forever Angela(Christopher-John Rowe)Mum
Tribute For This Weekend
Candles will be lit as usual on Sunday for Monday
I would like to take this opportunity to thank everyone for all the candles, tributes and photographs they have taken the time to leave on Christopher’s Website they are very much appreciated I read every single one.
I Love And Miss Him So Much.
Thanks again Angela X
Love is like a butterfly;
It goes where it pleases
And pleases wherever it goes.
The best and most beautiful
Things in the world cannot
Be seen or even touched.
They must be felt with the heart
The Watcher
You always leaned to watch for us
Anxious if we were late,
In winter by the window,
In summer by the gate.
And though we mocked you tenderly
Who had such foolish care,
The long way home would seem more safe,
Because you waited there.
Your thoughts were all so full of us,
You never could forget,
And so I think that where you are
You must be watching yet.
Waiting ‘til we come home to you
Anxious if we are late
Watching from Heaven’s window
Leaning from Heaven’s gate.
To Those Whom I Love and Those Who Love Me
When I am gone, release me, let me go
I have so many things to see and do
You must not tie yourself to me with tears
Be happy that I have had so many years
I gave you my love, you can only guess
How much you gave me in happiness
I think you for the love each have shown
But now it is time I traveled on alone
So grieve a while for me, if grieve you must
Then let your grief be comforted by trust
It is only for a while that we must part
So bless the memories in your heart
I will not be far away, for life goes on
So if you need me, call and I will come
Though you can not see or touch me,
I will be near and if you listen with your heart,
You will hear all of my love around you
Soft and clear then, when you must come this way alone I will greet you with a smile and a
"Welcome Home"
Friends Are Like Angels,
Who brighten our days.
In all kinds of wonderful,
Magical ways.
Their thoughtfulness comes,
As a gift from above.
And we feel we're surrounded,
By warm, caring love.
Like upside-down rainbows,
Their smiles bring the sun.
And they fill ho-hum moments,
With laughter and fun.
Friends are like angels,
Without any wings.
Blessing our lives,
With the most precious thing
Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela(Christopher-John Rowe)Mum
In life we loved you dearly,
In death we love you still.
In our hearts you hold a place
No one will ever fill.
It broke our hearts to lose you
But you didn't go alone.
Part of us went with you
The day God took you home.
Even though things are different I pray they stay the same.
Because the hours, the nights, the days; they just came.
I want the cold, the snow, the ice on the ground.
Time doesn't stop just because I am not around.
Shimmering lights, merry wreaths, and decorations on the tree.
But I hope, and I dream that you're thinking of me.
Candles that flicker, burn, and melt away.
Just like the words in my head that I need to say.
Familiar feelings, alone, and without me.
Even though it's old; it's still fresh, and it's new.
Light the logs, in the fire place, but don't let them go out.
You need to hold on to something bright to curve your
doubt.
I want the gifts, and the presents underneath the tree.
Even if not a one of them is addressed to me.
Leave them wrapped, even after New Years they stay.
So there's always surprises, and a chance for a new day.
5-1
im sure you will be really pleased to no that liverpool whopped newcasle 5-1 today what do you think of that thomas bet your pleased as punch.sleep well and im sending you my love xx
THE CORD!
We are connected, my child and I,
by an invisible cord not seen by the eye.
It’s not like the cord that connects us at birth,
this cord can’t be seen by any on earth.
This cord does its work right from the start,
it binds us together, attached by the heart
I know that it’s there, though no one can see
this invisible cord, from my child to me.
The strength of this cord,
it’s hard to describe,
it can’t be destroyed, it can’t be denied.
It’s stronger than any cord man could create;
it withstands the test, can hold any weight.
And though you are gone and you’re not here with me,
the cord is still there though no one can see.
It pulls at my heart, I am bruised, I am sore,
but this cord is my lifeline as never before.
I’m thankful that God connects us this way,
a mother and child…Death can’t take it away.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Thinking off you all
What a sad day it is today, i hope you can find it in your hearts to smile, I did when i looked at Toms cheeky face on his pictures, What a little cutie,He will be the brightest star up in the sky & when you feel the wind on your face that will be Tom blowing you kisses from heaven....Happy Birthday little man, stay close to your family & keep them strong xxxxx
Remembered
Those we love we never lose
For always they will be
Loved, remembered, treasured
Always in our memory.
HAVE A GOOD WEEKEND EVERYONE
Our Lives changed, the very moment you passed away.
We couldn't stop it; there was nothing we could say.
You've touched our lives so deeply to a point you will never know,
We try to think about you when we are feeling down and low.
Sometimes when our day gets hard we will think about your beautiful smile
And if we listen hard enough we will hear your voice after a while.
It's you who give us a reason to go on with our day,
And now if we want to see you we'll bow our heads and pray.
We catch ourselves looking for you still, in the halls and at the front door,
But when we call your name there is no reply any more!
We never thought a day would come where we would be apart,
God has you in his keepings, we have you in our hearts.
Life will go on, but never will be the same,
Your beautiful smile is gone, but it will always remain.
You're our angel from up above.
You'll always be missed, but most importantly... loved.
Just one more minute, God, is all we ask- why can't you give them back;
It seems like such a simple task. We guess people are right when they say God only takes the best,
We know enough now that you're peacefully at rest.
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You can shed tears that they are gone,
Or you can smile because they lived,
You can close your eyes and pray that they will come back,
Or you can open your eyes and see all that they have left.
Your heart can be empty because you can't see them
Or you can be full of the love that you shared,
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday,
Or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember them and only that they are gone
Or you can cherish the memory and let it live on,
You can cry and close your mind be empty and turn your back,
Or you can do what they would want: smile, open your eyes, love and go on.
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I'm writing this from heaven, where I dwell with God above.
Where there's no more tears or sadness, there's just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy because I am out of sight
Remember that I am with you every morning, noon and night.
And I will stay beside you, every day, week and year
And when you're sad I'll still be there to wipe away your tears.
When you think of my life on earth and all those living years
Because your only human their bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry it does relieve the pain
Remember there wouldn't be flowers unless we first had rain.
I wish I could tell you of all that God has planned
But even if I were able to, you wouldn't understand.
When your going down the street and you've got me on your mind
I'm walking in your footsteps and only half a step behind.
And if you feel a gentle breeze or wind upon your face
Remember it's only me with a loving and soft embrace.
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Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela(Christopher-John Rowe)Mum
THIS TRIBUTE IS FOR FRIDAY BUSY DAY FOR ME
Have A Good Weekend Everyone
If I Knew
If I knew it would be the last time
That I'd see you fall asleep,
I would tuck you in more tightly
and pray the Lord, your soul to keep.
If I knew it would be the last time
that I see you walk out the door,
I would give you a hug and kiss
and call you back for one more.
If I knew it would be the last time
I'd hear your voice lifted up in praise,
I would video tape each action and word,
so I could play them back day after day.
If I knew it would be the last time,
I could spare an extra minute
to stop and say "I love you,"
instead of assuming you would KNOW I do.
If I knew it would be the last time
I would be there to share your day,
well I'm sure you'll have so many more,
so I can let just this one slip away.
For surely there's always tomorrow
to make up for an oversight,
and we always get a second chance
to make everything just right.
There will always be another day
to say "I love you,"
And certainly there's another chance to say
our "Anything I can do?"
But just in case I might be wrong,
and today is all I get,
I'd like to say how much I love you
and I hope we never forget.
Tomorrow is not promised to anyone,
young or old alike,
And today may be the last chance
you get to hold your loved one tight.
So if you're waiting for tomorrow,
why not do it today?
For if tomorrow never comes,
you'll surely regret the day,
That you didn't take that extra time
for a smile, a hug, or a kiss
and you were too busy to grant someone,
what turned out to be their one last wish.
So hold your loved ones close today,
and whisper in their ear,
Tell them how much you love them
and that you'll always hold them dear
Take time to say "I'm sorry,"
"Please forgive me," "Thank you," or "It's okay."
And if tomorrow never comes,
you'll have no regrets about today.
Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela(Christopher-John Rowe)Mum
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